1.1 My job or business suffers because of the time spent in or preparing for court.

71%  A) strongly agree
14%  B) agree
7%    C) neither agree nor disagree
0%    D) disagree
0%    E) strongly disagree
8%    N/A (Not Applicable) 

1.2 The legal establishment played a key role in the breakup of my family.

48%  A) strongly agree
13%  B) agree
13%  C) neither agree nor disagree
12%  D) disagree
0%    E) strongly disagree
14%  N/A

1.3 I am unhappy about the way the court restricts my access to my children.

57%  A) strongly agree
10%  B) agree
13%  C) neither agree nor disagree
7%    D) disagree
0%    E) strongly disagree
13%  N/A

1.4) When I think about these things I get depressed.

64% A) strongly agree
16% B) agree
19% C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree

1.5) I detest the term "child visitation".

86% A) strongly agree
13% B) agree
0%   C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree
1%  N/A

1.6) "Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness" is impossible with my current legal problems.

51% A) strongly agree
36% B) agree
0%   C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
7%   E) strongly disagree
6%  N/A

1.7 Fatherlessness is the nation's worst crisis.

43% A) strongly agree
29% B) agree
20% C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree
8%   N/A

1.8  Fatherlessness is a primary factor in our current social/economic pathology. 

86% A) strongly agree
14% B) agree
0%   C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree

1.9 A presumption of father custody in the event of divorce would eliminate fatherlessness.

39% A) strongly agree
44% B) agree
14% C) neither agree nor disagree
2%   D) disagree
1%   E) strongly disagree

2.0 The goal of any fathers' movement should be father custody.

51% A) strongly agree
21% B) agree
14% C) neither agree nor disagree
13% D) disagree
1%   E) strongly disagree

2.1 The goal of any fathers' movement should be for men to have an equal right with women to define what sexual equality and sexual equity are.

51% A) strongly agree
27% B) agree
14% C) neither agree nor disagree
5%   D) disagree
3%   E) strongly disagree

2.2 The goal of any fathers' movement should be basic, absolute and urgent: to end the systemic denigration of men and masculinity, the marginalization of men in family life, the divisive effects of the politics of group identity on our sense of community, and the corrosion of our society  resulting from these phenomena.

71% A) strongly agree
21% B) agree
8%   C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree

2.3 The goal of any fathers' movement should be equal treatment in law and fact.

94% A) strongly agree
0%   B) agree
0%   C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree
6%  N/A

2.4 Fathers are better parents than mothers.

0%   A) strongly agree
8%   B) agree
84% C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
8%   E) strongly disagree

2.5 "Abuse" of wives and children is a major social problem.

0%   A) strongly agree
36% B) agree
21% C) neither agree nor disagree
14% D) disagree
29% E) strongly disagree

2.6 A husband should have more say over family decisions than a wife.

28% A) strongly agree
4%   B) agree
39% C) neither agree nor disagree
21% D) disagree
8%   E) strongly disagree


3.1 Women's right to vote undermines family unity.

12% A) strongly agree
8%   B) agree
15% C) neither agree nor disagree
32% D) disagree
33% E) strongly disagree

3.2 Women's right to vote should be repealed.

9%   A) strongly agree
2%   B) agree
15% C) neither agree nor disagree
20% D) disagree
54% E) strongly disagree

3.3 Feminism has adversely affected women.

43% A) strongly agree
28% B) agree
23% C) neither agree nor disagree
6%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree

3.4 Working wives weaken family unity.

23% A) strongly agree
24% B) agree
37% C) neither agree nor disagree
6%   D) disagree
10% E) strongly disagree

3.5) I resent that so much of my tax dollar pays for unworkable social programs.

74% A) strongly agree
19% B) agree
0%   C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree
7%  N/A

3.5) I am worried that the current Republican Congress will not do enough to eliminate big government.

79% A) strongly agree
16% B) agree
0%   C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree
5%   N/A

4.1 Welfare and AFDC promote divorce and illegitimacy.

66% A) strongly agree
28% B) agree
0%   C) neither agree nor disagree
6%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree

4.2 Affirmative action promotes divorce.

31% A) strongly agree
21% B) agree
28% C) neither agree nor disagree
20% D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree

4.3 "Child support" creates an environment which encourages mothers to seek divorce.

93% A) strongly agree
7%   B) agree
0%   C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree

4.4 Battered Women Shelters promote divorce.

47% A) strongly agree
42% B) agree
7%   C) neither agree nor disagree
4%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree

4.5 HUD promotes divorce.

14% A) strongly agree
29% B) agree
36% C) neither agree nor disagree
7%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree
14% N/A

4.6 Social Security promotes divorce.

8%   A) strongly agree
14% B) agree
60% C) neither agree nor disagree
18% D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree

4.7 Abortion encourages divorce by excluding the father from the reproduction process.

51% A) strongly agree
20% B) agree
21% C) neither agree nor disagree
8%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree

4.8) Our current tax structure promotes divorce.

42% A) strongly agree
20% B) agree
27% C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree
11% N/A

4.9) To eliminate fatherlessness, economic incentives for divorce and illegitimacy must be eliminated.

58% A) strongly agree
31% B) agree
11% C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree

5.0) Reducing fatherlessness requires the removal of all government involvement from family matters.

44% A) strongly agree
27% B) agree
10% C) neither agree nor disagree
13% D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree
6%   N/A

5.1) Reducing fatherlessness requires a new law to prohibit divorce.

8%   A) strongly agree
14% B) agree
19% C) neither agree nor disagree
42% D) disagree
11% E) strongly disagree
6%   N/A

5.2)  When I think about my experience in court  I am angry.

78% A) strongly agree
11% B) agree
0%   C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree
11% N/A

5.3) The judicial system discriminates against men.

84% A) strongly agree
12% B) agree
4%   C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree

5.4)  The judicial system thinks only about lawyers and not about children.

65% A) strongly agree
13% B) agree
9%   C) neither agree nor disagree
8%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree
5%   N/A

5.5) I have thought about leaving the state or  country to avoid further litigation.

44% A) strongly agree
12% B) agree
12% C) neither agree nor disagree
9%   D) disagree
14% E) strongly disagree
7%   N/A

5.6) Government workers must be made more accountable for their actions.

70% A) strongly agree
22% B) agree
8%   C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree

5.7)  When I think about my experiences in court I feel rage.

44% A) strongly agree
29% B) agree
7%   C) neither agree nor disagree
0%   D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree
19% N/A

5.8) The emotion I feel, when I think about how the court has treated my children, does not have a word, but it is beyond 'rage'.

55% A) strongly agree
18% B) agree
0%   C) neither agree nor disagree
11% D) disagree
0%   E) strongly disagree
16% N/A

5.9) My wife or ex-wife struck me but I did not consider it to be "abuse".

34% A) strongly agree
9%   B) agree
19% C) neither agree nor disagree
8%   D) disagree
7%   E) strongly disagree
23% N/A

6.0) The words I would use to describe my emotions when I was struck 
by my wife or ex-wife are:

1)Insulted, and intimidated, plus there is the hate that goes with
someone hiding behind being a woman to pick on biger people who are then
just suposed to take it.
4)Bullshit [to "I was never struck by my wife or ex-wife]
1)_Fight
2)_Violence
3)_get away, don't strike back
4) ___I was struck many times by my wife or ex-wife and 
I left before I lost control.  I never even once struck her back.
1)_Call the Police and Sheriff, but they did nothing.
1)_supprise
2)_shock
1) sad
2) depressed
3) confused
1)_Confusion, anger, resentment, anxiety, self defense, fear of
consequences of striking back in self defense (due to laws, and ignorant police)
4) ___anrgy, because___________________I never struck my wife 
1)___Struck by the lies and deceit.  A giant void and emptiness.  Total 
bewilderment that human beings could stoop to such low tactics.  Total 
distrust.  20 years of work down the river.  I also resent being done this 
way now that I am almost 50 years old and cannot start over.  My energy 
level because of the feeling of futility is half of what it should be.
1)_surprise. _(she is not my match, normally that's suicidal)
2)_wonder ( I wouldn't strike someone twice my size)______
3)_anger (she accused me of abuse when I soft-blocked her second)
1)angry
2)belittled
3)sadness
1) shocked
2) pissed off
3) confused
4) hurt
1)How dare her
1) Disappointment
2) Confusion
3) Frustration
1)_Confused
2)Angry
3)Disappointed
4) Unable to retaliate
1)_tolerance
1)_Resentment; disbelief; I wanted to know "what was the real root of the
problem and why would it manifest its self in this fashion"
1)Pissed
2)Powerless and Helpless
3)Frustrated beyond belief
1)Shock
2)Sadness
3)Anger

IF YOU THINK OF QUESTIONS WHICH SHOULD BE INCLUDED IN THIS SURVEY, PLEASE ENTER THEM BELOW:
1)_How did your X get long with her own father?
2)___Did your X accuse you of molestation?
3) Would you keep your children away from your X if you had custody?

Well not so much questions but comments.  First of all, I think the father's
movement should be so that they have an equal standing in the courts.  I
think true 50/50 custody should be mandated, and there should be NO spousal
or child support. Only in fringe cases, where theres is violence, drug abuse,
or interference in custody, kidnapping, and the like, should there be and
automatic change in custody to the non-perpetrating parent.  We could almost
eliminate family court if there were a pre-assigned agreement that
stipultated that both parties shall share in custody - two weeks on, two
weeks off.  The exchange palce shall be the school.  The parents shall live
in close enough proximity to the childs school, such that the child has the
least amount of scoial interfence. The child should have free telephone
access to either parent at any time.  The child should have free telephone
access to either grandparents any time.  Violation of one or all of the above
actions shall IMMEDIATELY terminate the 50% share custody of the violating
parent and matter shall be heard in front of the court to determine cause and
further action.

This would be standard issue for all cases.  As soon as the women hear that
they don't have any money coming out of this one, things might start to
change.  If our new law has any teethe that would help too (false allegations
of abuse a felony).

Best,

Monica




1.1) A competency and honesty test should be developed to evaluate the government employees who absorb 42 cents of every dollar of wages earned.

1.2) Women should not be allowed to get away with using sex for money and still scream they want equality. 

1.3)  Mothers who kidnap children or beat men should suffer legal penalties also.

1.4) Females beat men yet the Police do nothing.

1.5) Even upon that assault women have SuperRights?  

1.6) The SUPERSTRUCTURES of Social Services are eternally employed.

1.7) They never solve the problems they were created to solve.

1.8) A father has to pay for everything.

2.0) I don't believe in child or spousal support.

2.1) I do pay child support.

2.2) I don't pay child or spousal support because there is no accountibility required.

2.3) I don't pay child or spousal support because it doesn't go for the needs of the child.

2.4) I don't pay child or spousal support because I don't have that kind of money.

2.5) I don't pay child or spousal support because I wouldn't pay the b----h a dime

2.6) All forms of support laws should be eliminated.

3.0) Courts do not follow the law

3.1) Judges should not have judicial immunity

3.2) The entire family law process is simply an issue of money

4.0) I would be a better parent to my child than my ex.

4.1) My children are abused by my ex, or wife.

4.2) Family law courts violate the constitution.

4.3) Divorce cases and all related issues are entitled to be heard by a jury as a matter of right.

4.4) States should be liable for punitive damages in civil rights cases.

4.5) Attorneys are scum.

4.6) The only interest attorneys have in their clients are their fees.

4.7) Psychology is voodoo social analysis.

5.0) Marriage is a contract, not a license to steal.

5.1) Dissolutions/divorces are a matter of contract law, not equity law.

5.2) Police are ignorant, jack booted thugs, that are really feminists in drag.

5.3) Father's rights organizations are inneffective.

5.4) In a child custody suit, the winner should pay the loser reparations in order to ensure moral motives for seeking custody.

5.5) My constitutional rights have been routinely ignored by the court.

5.6) Judges in Family Law courts have too much discretionary power.

5.7) Children should have more of a say in where they are placed after divorce     

5.8) It should be mandatory that the children are separately represented during divorce proceedings?

5.9) Should custodial parents be able to exclude the NCP from access by moving interstate ?

6.0) Joint physical custody should be the presumptive judgement in cases of child custody?

6.1) Unwed fathers should have automatic parental rights and access to their children?

6.2) No-fault divorce should be repealed?

6.3) Alimony should be only a limited and rare occurrence and only be awarded as transitional support.

6.4) Alimony should be eliminated.

6.5) Child support be awarded only if the father is allowed to actively parent his children.

6.6) Working outside the home gives men more power and control over their lives.

6.7) Working for a paycheck gives men more power in traditional marriages because in "modern marriages" he earns the money and she only spends it.

7.0) Feminists are not interested in equality; they are interested in superiority.

7.1) Colleges and Universities promote feminism and actively discourage masculism.

7.2) I was subjected to false accusations.

7.3) I was kicked out of my home without a hearing.

7.) I was unaware that my spouse was filing for divorce.

7.5) I was ambushed.

7.6) A license should be required in order to file for divorce.

7.7) The license should require several sessions of counciling for each parent individully and together, before a lawyer could be contacted.

7.8) The person who performed the original marriage ceremony should be notified if divorce or seperation is comtemplated?